This is what pure bliss looks like. This was my sister in the moments before the wedding began. Sheer unadulterated joy. If you had been there, you would have been beaming in exactly the same way. It was hard not to get caught up in the excitement and give in to the feeling of what must surely be what perfect happiness feels like.
Her wedding was beautiful, in all respects. There were a few tiny hiccups, and probably a few things I’m not even aware of, but for the most part the wedding went off without a hitch. The ceremony was great — the pastor gave an interesting speech analogizing marriage to a hammer, made sense at the time — and it was over practically before I had blinked. I gave a recitation of Shakespeare’s Sonnet 116, which I have had memorized since high school. As she is my sister, she had the sonnet memorized as well. While I was reciting the sonnet that is practically a part of my very being at this point to around 240 people, I glanced over at my sister and giggled. She was mouthing all the words along with me. She may not share my last name anymore, but she will always be my sister. It was probably my favorite moment of the whole wedding.
The reception was epic. I’m not even sure its possible to describe a reception as fantastic as hers was. The band was perfect, they played a great mix of songs. I helped whenever possible, and was able to help the band’s singer sing “I Will Survive” because everything I do is memorized…I kinda forgot I’d done that til just now 🙂 My sister was shy and didn’t want to make a big deal about throwing the bouquet, so I told her to just throw it at me. The other single girls were dismayed to discover they had somehow completely missed the bouquet toss…hehehe. It still counts, I don’t care what you say. It may even be possible that I danced every dance. Simply amazing.
My sister is now on her honeymoon with her fiancee in Lake Tahoe. They are a perfect couple. As my final act as her bridesmaid, I am taking care of a cat they decided to adopt until they return from Tahoe. Unfortunately, the cat had to make the three hour car trip back to my home in order for me to take care of it. We made it though, and the cat “Jill” is doing splendidly. She is anxious to be my sister and brother in-law’s first baby.
Oddly enough, I now have to go back to doing normal things. Something HUGE has just happened, I mean, I now have a new person in my family — but everything else keeps moving as well and I’ve got to keep up. Back to the “grind” as they say. Its going to be strange at first for my family to switch gears — the conversations no longer have to center around the upcoming wedding, no one has to tip toe around all the various disagreements concerning details of a wedding that ultimately wouldn’t have made a difference in the first place, and not that I was jealous or anything, but now it will be okay for me to tell my family about my life again! The center of the universe has been thankfully put back on an intangible thing — I’m not sure what the center of the universe is come to think of it. All I know is that it no longer has to be my sister 😛
I jest a little, but all in all I am glowing with the happiness that I feel for my sister because I know that she has found her one and only. Amazing.